Harry Barner , S&F
Harry Barner, 91 of East Greenbush, passed peacefully on December 25, 2020, in his home. He was predeceased by Elizabeth, his wife of 61 years; and his children, Robert, Marie, and Susan. He is survived by his children, Virginia "Ginger" (Bruce), Stephen, Harry "Bud," Philip, Paul, and Timothy. Harry and Betty were very active serving their Lord and Savior as well as their community. Together they sought opportunities to demonstrate God's love to others, in gratitude for all He did for them. Harry started teaching industrial arts at Rensselaer City schools in 1958 and retired in 1991 but continued to substitute teach for many years, becoming a familiar face for 50 years of Rensselaer's youth. He couldn't go anywhere in town without hearing "Hey, Mr. B.!" accompanied by a friendly wave. Harry was too young for service during World War II, and instead worked as a messenger for the railroad, riding his bicycle in all kinds of weather to wake trainmen at their homes when they were needed to make up a crew. He worked 48 hour weeks beginning at age 16 and still excelled in his schoolwork. He met Betty while attending Oswego State. He often told the story of how he zeroed in on a beautiful soprano melody that he heard coming somewhere from a large group of young people, singing around a campfire, and he approached her with the word "harmonize." They were married in 1953, while Harry was serving in the Army, having been drafted into service during the Korean War, and they remained dedicated to each other and true to their vows, the rest of their lives. They sang many duets in church and, through the 1960s and '70s, Harry often led the singing during Sunday evening services. Music was always a big part of their lives. A memorial service will be held when restrictions are lifted and people are once again able to gather in large groups. No flowers please. Those wishing to make a donation in his memory should send to Paul M. Barner Ministries, 18 Eileen Dr., Rensselaer, NY, 12144. This is a ministry in the Philippines founded by Harry's son and information about the school and orphanages may be found at Barner.org.